If been trying to live my own version of the Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson movie The Bucket List. For those of you who don’t know it, it is the story of two guys who share a room in a hospital, and make a list of things they want to do before they "kick the bucket". Then they go out and live it.
Being the sex therapist (who thinks that I should be living these experiences, rather than simply counseling about them) that I am, my own bucket List, has got more of a sexual slant to it. I want to have elegant sexual experiences in amazing locations. You may have read about my Out of Africa experiences recently. I’ve also done whirlpool sex, discreet public sex, and Mexican sex (don’t ask). I’m thinking that ski lift sex, golf cart sex, moutain climbing sex, and the From Here to Eternity (rolling around in the surf sex) may also be amazing. No, I’m not an exhibitionist, and I have no desire to be arrested for being lewd in public. It’s just that, like most women, I get a charge out of the setting, rather than a change in plot. I don’t need a cast of thousands to make my fantasies come true, just a partner I trust, a great location, and a sense of adventure. Suggestions for new and interesting locations welcome.