The common belief is that women hit their sexual peak about age 37. Considered the power age for women, your body has learned all that it needs to know, and your hormones are happy bubbling away at top performance about then. After that it’s downhill in terms of basic the biology of desire, interest and…
DetailsSo another story this week from a new premature ejaculator. I was asking if he was circumcised, and he mentioned that he was, along with baby smooth all over. I asked in passing is he waxed or lasered (all the rage for cleaning up the shaft), and he said, "no, I duct tape myself." oh?!,…
DetailsI know I’ve been missing in action. Busy getting ready for the holidays, organizing choas, blah,blah blah, but most significantly has been an interesting crop of new patients. I’m gettting more and more patients in their senior years. They still have the urge, when asked, most of them felt that they would like sex at…
DetailsI’m talking to my gaggle of girlfriends, or out with the cool group of spinmamas the new "red hat society" for women in their 30’s and 40’s, and of course, the conversation turns to sex. Women approaching 40 seem to go one of two ways. Either their sex drive increases (guess which way mine is…
DetailsI have the hots for Andy Kessler. Not that I’ve ever met him, and the back flap picture I’m sure doesn’t do him justice, but his writing is smart, funny, incredibly astute, and articulate. Something I find sexy every time in a man. I’m sure he also has that boyish charm thing going on as…
DetailsMy partner hates when I get strange packages in the mail. He usually assumes (correctly) that it’s some wierd, new, sexual device that I’m going to chase him around the house to try out with me. I got a smaple of the new Liberator sex cushions that are like little wedges to ergonomically adjust your…
DetailsSo by now you may have discovered my secret obsession for schmaltzy chick lit. Chocolate and very light reading (I haven’t sunk as low as the bodice rippers, but they too have their appeal). Anyway, I’m in the book store yesterday and start flipping through a few books with a similar theme. "So, he’s not…
DetailsI know it’s frustrating. Believe me, I understand it. I speak to men all day long, who just can’t hang on. It’s also teeth nashing time to be the partner of someone who is a little quick. If women need 10-14 minutes of intercourse (with indirect contact on their clitoris), and the average guy ejaculates…
DetailsI was cleaning out my purse this morning (a weekly occurance) and found the list of role playing fantasies that were brainstormed during my workshop last week with Midori. I thought if you were bored, (and given Halloween costumes are dirt cheap right now – I ought an angel one for $1), I thought i…
DetailsSo I’ve decided I’m going to get my pubes zapped. After decades of shaving (years of those little red bumps), ingrown hairs in hard-to-reach-spots, screaming as the hot waxed is ripped from stem to stern, melting the hair with noxious chemicals in the creams that can eat through bathroom tile, and the "stripper sugaring" where…
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