I wrote a bunch of stuff on desire yesterday and then did something before saving it properly and it all disappeared. Duh! Thought I would rant about something else, but the desire question won’t go away today. I thought desire was something I could orchestrate better. It turns out that my desires have taken me…
DetailsAs a natural blonde of Scottish decent, I don’t tan, rather I ignite. My ancestors lived in a cave in the North Atlantic, eating cod, and having their hairy legs protect them from the sun. So I have two skin tones, fish belly white, and sunburnt red, and despite the spf 120, I end up…
DetailsSo, I took my first stripping class today. And I now have a new appreciation for the hard work that peeling truly is. My bum is sore. My hands are sore from gripping the pole, and trying to get up off the ground gracefully was an oxymoron. However, I learned to flip my hair around,…
DetailsI’ve been spending more and more of my day talking to men about how to increase the amount of sex they are getting. Between increasing their wives libido (try Thrust the cool new nutritional product with amazing results), how to find a mistress, advertise for the love of your life, and generally work through the…
DetailsHey, I was never the kid with the diary. Some of my friends journaled about their life daily, one of them, my friend Kim is just publishing her teenage memoires as she wrote about the going through an adolescent pregnancy. She’s now a grandmother in her early 40’s. I, on the other hand, never did.…
DetailsI’m having fun doing some fairly intensive study into the sexual benefits of certain supplements. That is, pop some African tree bark, or some obscure Brazilian berries and turn in to a raving nymphomaniac, or have the 4 hour hard on. Without the Viagra. I’m suggesting that men with mediocre erections, and women who are…
DetailsAs a sex therapist I’ve seen, heard, and documented a few interesting things. Other people’s sex lives really are fascinating conversation. But every now and then I come up with something that leaves me gobstopped. Floored, and taken completely by surprise. A new patient, attractive man in his early 40’s came to see me for…
DetailsIt’s funny how sex is everywhere if you know where to look. Just back from a trip to Florida (3 days at Disney, a little sand, water, and palm trees and back to snow) sigh… Anyway I was sitting behind a couple of honeymooners who had a blanket across thier laps, and I’m sure did…
DetailsI’m going to a cousin’s wedding reception, after she and her new husband eloped in Bali a few months ago. In the pictures, not just the ones in the white dress, but the following shots of her in Australia touching crocodiles, or hiking in Thailand I noted that she had never looked better. It caused…
DetailsOne of my favorite, most cited sex studies in the last few years was one done by Dr. Alan Hirsch from Chicago, who found that our limbic (primative brain linked with sex) gets turned on by certain smells. For men, their testosterone levels go up a whopping 40% when exposed to the smell of cooking…
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