So what do you do if you’re a travelling business guy trying to find some out-of-town-sex with integrity? Escorts, rub and tug parlors, offer a quick release but with no follow through, and for a thinking man, they can be very unsatisfying. Swing clubs rarely let in single men, and "a girl in every port"…
DetailsMy friend Patti has this cool new blackberry. More bells and whistles than mine, (can you tell I’m envious) and she has a camera that allows her to take pictures she can email immediately. She told a group of us tonight (and gave me permission to tell the world) that she when she was feeling…
DetailsI have a number of girlfriends who have recently hooked up with much younger men. Hot, sexually open, and much younger. In the online dating world, the Mrs. Robinson comments abound as young men intheir early and mid 20’s actively pursue 40 year old women. I asked one of them what was the appeal…
DetailsI’ve been pondering the difference between love and lust – the mass of phermones, and organic chemicals that turns your brain to mush, and your legs to rubber. I’ve loved a few men, and think I’ve even been in love briefly once or twice. I’ve been hurt, helped negotiate a few divorces in private practices,…
DetailsAsk any woman about the power of hormones. Every month fertile women are given on on upfront and personal look at how our biochemistry controls behaviour. Men have the same problem, only its constant, and is what gets them out to bars on a Saturday night. In a new relationship, dopamine is the “feel good”…
DetailsIt started with a new patient and his wife who were struggling with his submissive desires. He wanted his wife to dominate him sexually, and take over in a female superior kind of way, of their life – making her the leader in their marriage. I confessed that it wasn’t my area of specialty, but…
DetailsYou know women talk about sex. A lot. Well I was camping this week (bug bites, frogs, snakes, countless fish, and burnt marshmallows), and sitting around the campfire the conversation naturally headed south. The kind of conversation you can only have with a girlfriend under the stars where we discussed giving the perfect blow job.…
DetailsTomorrow is midsummer’s eve. The summer solstice, the longest day of the year, my half birthday truth be told (hint sailor, bring chocolate…). My favourite Shakespearian play – beats Romeo and Julliet "What light from yonder window breaks? It is the East and Julliet is the sun…." or the tragedies "take thee to a nunnery…"…
DetailsMy little brother gave me a gift yesterday. We are an especially literate family, and always trade back and forth books, but along with the books he handed me a box of magnetic erotic poetry words for the fridge at my office. Never mind why I have a fridge at my office, I now stand…
DetailsI wrote a bunch of stuff on desire yesterday and then did something before saving it properly and it all disappeared. Duh! Thought I would rant about something else, but the desire question won’t go away today. I thought desire was something I could orchestrate better. It turns out that my desires have taken me…
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