When I used to advertised in the local newspaper for my clinical sex therapy services, I was invariably placed in close proximity to the hooker ads near the back pages, despite my protests. So for days I had to screen calls wondering about my "services". My response when pressed was "that girls who do what…
DetailsLike most women, I have numerous men in my life. My partner, ex-partner, realtor, accountant, lawyer, brother, father and nine-year old son to name a few. I have been known once or twice to complain about the energy it takes to manage all of them, and stay connected. My girlfriends understand that if we don’t…
DetailsI was watching the hockey game last night at a place called Mort’s pub (the Senators crushed the Leafs 8-2 and banged their little pointed heads into the ice). With the beer and testosterone flowing, it struck me ( as it does) just how much sports and sex have in common. In hockey it’s playing…
DetailsI’ve been writing this week about how people are the same as each other, and how we seem to be the same as the birds, bees etc. However there are some gender differences that we atill have to overcome. I’m working with a new couple as patients, who have been married for 40 years, work…
DetailsDesire Resorts Los Cabos A review by Sue McGarvie, Clinical sex therapist, Talk show host www.sexwithsue.com It’s not just that we’ve had 17 feet of snow this winter in my part of Canada , that has me wishing I could emigrate to Mexico . I have fallen in love with the lifestyle, and culture…
DetailsEven though we still have six feet of snow on the ground outside my window, the calendar says it’s officially spring. Apparently, the birds agree that spring has arrived. With the longer days, the birds have migrated back with their thoughts on what their little bird brains think about in spring time. Yup, early spring…
DetailsI was sitting around the dinner table on vacation last week with a few other couples, talking about what else, sex. The subject quickly moved to a topic that I think is on everyone’s mind (and where there is still a great deal of myths surrounding it) the issue of female ejaculation and G spot…
DetailsIf been trying to live my own version of the Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson movie The Bucket List. For those of you who don’t know it, it is the story of two guys who share a room in a hospital, and make a list of things they want to do before they "kick the…
DetailsSo I’ve been missing for awhile again. This time I’ve been exploring the wilds of South Africa on Safari, living a Survivor episode rather than watching one. I’ve got so much to blog about, so expect some flurries of my erotic musings over the next few weeks as I catch up after a month away.…
DetailsI was asked at a sex workshop amongst a bunch of other sex educators to name the three sexual things that you most prefer. It was surprising the variance in the answers. For me, along with intercourse, my favourite activity involves great, deep, hard fingers on my gspot. (The third favourite I’ll keep to myself…
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