In my ongoing research to actually see if I can fix female libido issues, I struggle (like most other sex therapist, doctors, and women themselves), to find something that works. I swear by huge doses of Omega 3, dark chocolate, zinc, coral calcium, and a good cleanse. If your body’s natural state in optimal health…
DetailsThere is something so absolutely decadent about an afternoon boff or nooner, on a day when one is supose to be hard at work. I wondered how many other women thought that mid afternoon was the perfect time to engage? A quick google search and 36% of women said afternoon or late afternoon was the…
Details"Nothing says Hello Sailor better than ruby red lipstick"… In between working on my book yesterday, I was sent a utube video of a burlesque dance troop (Miss Mitzy Cream) I like so much. girls in pasties… There is something about the fun, sassy nature of retro, full-figured dancers with great gams, dancing up…
DetailsI spent my weekend standing on concrete in three inch heels watching the drag queens mix with the suburban couples. Took in the pony play spanking demonstrations, (where women dressed up in latex, pretend they are horses), and answered a bunch of questions about where and what is the G spot, and bought two hot…
DetailsBlow jobs…. Not the topic of conversation at most dinner parties, (except maybe some of the dinner parties I’ve been invited to recently…). I was thinking today about the etiquette of "being in a social situation with something in your mouth…." I was reading Nicole Beland (one of the sex journalists at Men’s Health mag),…
DetailsAnother day, another bunch flurry of emails about getting into bed with your neighbors. No kidding, it’s not just you who are thinking about it. Or at least checking in case your neighbors are having better sex than you are, and you’re missing out. You know all the men are thinking about it, and wishing…
DetailsI’m catching up on my email after the holiday hiatus, and am noticing that I’m getting more questions than usual about the issue of threesomes and swinging. More and more people seem to be curious. Known as "The Lifestyle", swinging, swapping, or anything that includes one or more people into sexual play with you and…
DetailsThere is a belief put forward by sex experts that women reach their sexual peak somewhere starting in their late 30’s and ending anywhere from their 40’s to menopause depending on who you read. That’s not much consolation to the 20 odd million women with inhibited sex drive, who fall into bed every night dry…
DetailsWith snow piled to the windows here in the frozen north, a young girl’s fancy turns to thoughts of….. frolicking naked. At least mine do. The joys of being a sex therapist are that I have to lead the way when asked about current trends in sexuality. It’s a tough job, but somebody has…
DetailsIt’s been a crazy time. I’ve moved, re-invented myself, re-organized my life, and am now looking at the beginning of an incredible year. I was at a New Year’s Eve party last night and asked this crazy Californian if he had any resolutions. He resolved to have less drama in his life, and I thought…
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