I know I’ve written about the sexual wonders of chocolate before, but I think chocolate is as necessary as lubricant when having sex with women. I think all women need lube regularly – different times of the month, or stage of life will present a different type of wetness – no matter how turned on…
DetailsI like to dance. I’m reasonably good at it, and for me, it leverages a bunch of things all at once. I get to go out be social, and connect with some girlfriends who are also dancing fools, I get in some fun cardio (which means less time on the treadmill-yeah!), and the shrink in…
DetailsI had any epiphany today. Partly in conversation with a patient, and partly in my own twisted brain, I realized what is so seductive about men with a little depth. Don’t get me wrong, I can appreciate a great set of abs as well as the next woman, but what turns me on is smart,…
DetailsIt’s not much of a secret that I like facial hair. Particularly that three day old unshaven look. I filmed a national news story yesterday (on why older women need to try alternative ways to meet men, and should be dating younger men) and the young, camera guy came to my door unshaven, wearing sunglasses,…
DetailsSo what do you do if you’re a travelling business guy trying to find some out-of-town-sex with integrity? Escorts, rub and tug parlors, offer a quick release but with no follow through, and for a thinking man, they can be very unsatisfying. Swing clubs rarely let in single men, and "a girl in every port"…
DetailsMy friend Patti has this cool new blackberry. More bells and whistles than mine, (can you tell I’m envious) and she has a camera that allows her to take pictures she can email immediately. She told a group of us tonight (and gave me permission to tell the world) that she when she was feeling…
DetailsI have a number of girlfriends who have recently hooked up with much younger men. Hot, sexually open, and much younger. In the online dating world, the Mrs. Robinson comments abound as young men intheir early and mid 20’s actively pursue 40 year old women. I asked one of them what was the appeal…
DetailsI’ve been pondering the difference between love and lust – the mass of phermones, and organic chemicals that turns your brain to mush, and your legs to rubber. I’ve loved a few men, and think I’ve even been in love briefly once or twice. I’ve been hurt, helped negotiate a few divorces in private practices,…
DetailsAsk any woman about the power of hormones. Every month fertile women are given on on upfront and personal look at how our biochemistry controls behaviour. Men have the same problem, only its constant, and is what gets them out to bars on a Saturday night. In a new relationship, dopamine is the “feel good”…
DetailsIt started with a new patient and his wife who were struggling with his submissive desires. He wanted his wife to dominate him sexually, and take over in a female superior kind of way, of their life – making her the leader in their marriage. I confessed that it wasn’t my area of specialty, but…
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