I continue to be such a geek, and whether it's cool new computers, high tech camping equipment, or the latest in sex toys. As a rule, gadgets are so much fun to play with. I don't know whether it's they are shiny things, or because they are the latest and greatest bells and whistles, but that…
DetailsI was asked to do a comparison of Canadian and American sex differences by McLean;s for their upcoming Canada Day issue. Here are some of my thoughts (having lost the first edition of this blog, I'll get to the steamy stuff later…. Every time I cross the border into upstate New York (and you can…
DetailsI love being a sex therapist, and think sex is one of the last great free pleasures that everyone should do with joy and grace. I know not everyone has the amazing experiences of astounding sex, and I try not to project my interest in exploring every fascinating corner that their sexuality might be on…
DetailsThat according to phone sex workers polled by the EROS foundation of Australia, the most popular call in sex fantasy was being dominated by a sexy and powerful woman. Bring on the weekend dominatrixes, because it turns men on. I believe that a good 70% of men are somewhat or seriously sexually submissive. But sometimes the numbers…
DetailsNot that I'm quoting Martha Stewart (actually she says "it's a good thing"), no I'm quoting Bettie Page the 1940's pinup queen. "Women who don't express themselves sexually become repressed,"and that causes them to suffer." Bettie Page It stands to reason that repressing yourself wouldn't be that great for your overall equilibrium. I'll go…
DetailsThere is new research (at least if you listen to a bunch of Germans from Hamburg. And who has sex in Hamburg?), that once women get a steady guy, and frequency of sex starts a slow, but steady decent. Sound like your sex drive? It turns out that once a woman is secure in her relationship, she would…
DetailsI was happened to be doing a google keyword search about which sex terms were the most popular, and I was astounded to see the number of searches of individuals looking for clear information about giving and receiving anal sex. It made me wonder if the numbers of North American's putting part A into tightly…
DetailsThere is a quote this morning from 51 year old Kim Cattrall. Now I think Kim is cool. She's a Canadian girl who did a book about sex, she played the maneater Samatha on Sex in the City (complete with an amazing wardrobe), and says that sex is getting better as she ages. She tells…
DetailsAs a sex therapist, you never know what’s may be walking into your office next. I’ve seen every kind of costume, and thought I had treated most problems, fetishes, and addictions in my fifteen years in private practice and handling radio calls. Last week’s guy had a difficulty that I had never seen before. A…
DetailsI had a bunch of tiny, low sex driven female patients again this week. Something about those size two women who can’t seem to get motivated to have sex, despite great relationships, and hunky husbands. Besides the obvious physical problems, they just can’t think of a reason to do it. They reach orgasm, but besides…
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